You mentioned that you are expecting again. Perhaps he thinks that all of your love and attention is devoted to the new arrival. Make time each day to read a book with him, go for a walk etc. just mommy and son time. He is looking for attention, even if it is negative. Our 2 1/2 year old son has started acting out recently since we now have a 4month old at home. It is challenging and totally frustrating some days but the tantrums will decrease over time. Ignoring his behviour (when possible) is the best way to get him to cease the disruptive behaviour. Also giving him positive reinforcement helps.
May 22, 2008 Rating
MY BROTHER WAS THE SAME WAY by: Anonymous
My brother was the same way. The thing is, your child is probably only doing that to act like he probably doesn't care. You should be more strict with him, and act like you have all the control. If he says: "Ok, give me a time out," you should say: "I WILL give you a time out." And make him stand with his nose against the wall. That can be pretty embarrassing and uncomfortable. And if he tells you to go ahead and take away his toy, simply take it away and don't get him another one until he learns to respect you. Show him that YOU are boss.
May 21, 2008 Rating
Try looking at it another way by: MaryAnne
I wonder if you tried looking at it in a different way it would work better. You shouldn't be using time out as a reward - try a different time out. If your son likes what happens in time out, use that as a carrot for good behavior.
